2010 Episodes


Episode 84 12/25/10 Casting Cares Christmas Special Mp3 Share
Episode 83 12/18/10 1. How do I comfort my recovering alcoholic son who's friend just passed away and how can I pray for the person that died?  2. Should someone maintain a friendship with someone they had an affair with, even if they repented?  3. I'm pregnant with my 5th child and many people think I should get my tubes tied, how does God feel about that? Mp3 Share
Episode 82 12/11/10 1.  I've been divorced for 18 years, should I pray for my relationship to be restored?  2. I'm a Christian that got caught up in Harry Potter and wiccan practices.  3.  My husband out of the blue says our relationship isn't working, what should I do? Mp3 Share
Episode 81 12/4/10 1. What can we do to make new Christian holiday traditions?  2. How can we break the bondage of pornography on our family?  3. My wife rarely expresses her love toward me, how should I deal with it? Mp3 Share
Episode 80 11/27/10 1. What are some good resources in dealing with Jehovah's Witnesses?  2.  Can a Christian divorce and remarry if my spouse has mental problems?  3. Should a Christian declare bankruptcy? Mp3 Share
Episode 79 11/20/10 1. I'm thinking of leaving my church because its full of fake Christians.  2.  I have a friend who I believe is an alcoholic. Should I confront her or just pray for her?  3.  I married someone that I didn't know very long and now we are having problems, what should I do? Mp3 Share
Episode 78 11/13/10 1. Should I marry someone who is mormon?  2.  I am tired of being a Christian with gay tendencies..  Help me.  3.  What is the difference between a Christian and a JW? Mp3 Share
Episode 77 11/6/10 SPECIAL MALAWI OUTREACH EPISODE.  1.  Can a Christian be demon possessed? Mp3 Share
Episode 76 10/30/10 1.  Is it wrong for a married woman with kids to stay out late with her friends?  2.  My fiancee says it depresses him to talk to me, how should I take that?  3. Should I confess to my wife that I cheated on her while I wasn't walking with the Lord? Mp3 Share
Episode 75 10/23/10 1.  Is there ever a time where God doesn't want us to seek advice from church leaders?  2.  How can I communicate better with my spouse?  3. Should a woman ever be alone with a Pastor?  Mp3 Share
Episode 74 10/16/10 1.  Is it wrong for a woman to marry a man for support and security?   2. Can people fall in love at first sight?  3.  What is the best version of the Bible?  4. I have a friend who believes in ghosts and goes to places that are assumed to be haunted, how should I address this? Mp3 Share
Episode 73 10/9/10 1. My husband is not a Christian and is abusive, can I divorce him & can I remarry if I do?  2. I've been attacked verbally by a person in our church and shows no remorse and I find myself getting bitter at the situation, what should I do?  3.  Can anger & bitterness open up a Christian to demonic oppression? Mp3 Share
Episode 72 10/2/10 1.  If a prayer hasn't been answered, how do we know if God is telling us no, or just to wait?  2.  If I pray to be filled with the Holy Spirit, what if it doesn't happen?  3.  Where can I encourage   someone who was recently released from jail and is full of tattoos to a get involved in a church or ministry?  4. Should I minister to people even though I'm not a pastor? Mp3 Share
Episode 71 9/25/10 1. Is gender selection morally wrong?  2. My fiancee is being taken advantage of at work, what should he do?  3.  Do you have any advice for someone who has lost their husband?  4.  When we die do we go to Heaven immediately or is there a waiting period? Mp3 Share
Episode 70 9/18/10 1. I need a miracle in my marriage and I want to fast to see it happen, can you give me some insight on fasting?   2.  I'm unemployed & lost my home, I have faith in God, so why do I feel so hopeless about life?  3. Is moving to a different town to find a good church a good reason to move or is it a bad reason to uproot my family from where we live? Mp3 Share
Episode 69 9/11/10 1. My husband and I have been divorced for 4 years but in hopes of reconciliation I have moved home, is it wrong to be intimate in this situation, as we aren't exactly "married" anymore?  2. Does this mean that Jesus is Lucifer: Rev 22:16?   3. How do I cure my impure thoughts that I have daily, is it possible that these thoughts are caused by demons? Mp3 Share
Episode 68 8/29/10 What should a Christian's take on the whole Arizona immigration law be on this issue that is making so many Christians argue and fight?  My husband has always enjoyed an expensive lifestyle, I have stayed home and taken care of the kids, but now my kids are older and now he wants me to go to work even though I don't want to, what should I do?  If I walked away from my faith and then came back was i ever really saved at all? Mp3 Share
Episode 67 8/21/10 What does it take to be "saved"?  I asked my mom for a loan and she wrote me a check but then later changed her mind and took the check back, so should I ask her again or should I trust the Lord to meet my needs?  Do you believe once saved, always saved?  In Matthew 19:28 is Jesus referring to Judas among the 12 that will judge? Mp3 Share
Episode 66 8/14/10 Should I be worried if my husband's best friend is a bad influence on him?  My wife says really offensive things without even realizing it.  I have been praying the Lord will save my x-husband and we will reconcile, is it okay to hang out with him even though he's not a believer, and should I be praying for reconciliation? Mp3 Share
Episode 65 8/7/10 How do you deal with Christians who are liars and shameless self promoters and are in ministry positions.  Is it okay to drink wine and have a beer here and there as a Christian?  A Christian man told me that he is too attracted to me to be alone with so we can't be friends, what should I do now? Mp3 Share
Episode 64 7/31/10 Am I in sin if I break a fast early? Is the Christian fellowship group that I am in doing things wrong, its suddenly become very legalistic?  I felt the Lord lead me to split up with my fiancee and now he is in another relationship and I am very sad and feel like I made a mistake? Mp3 Share
Episode 63 7/24/10 If a person gets divorced and remarries, is that person living in adultery?   If God knew in advance that Judas was going to deceive Jesus, does that mean that Judas really didn't have any free will in the situation?  Isn't asking Jesus for forgiveness for something you feel guilty about just really is it diminishing your responsibility, & doesn't this removing of guilt encourage future immoral behavior? Mp3 Share
Episode 62 7/17/10 How should I break off a relationship between a crazy mother and a dependent son?  Should I testify in court against my soon to be ex wife in a matter regarding her job?  How can I know what God's plan for my life is? Mp3 Share
Episode 61 7/10/10 Is a verbally abusive father in the house as damaging as a physically abusive father?  I'm attending a church that doesn't focus that much on the Bible, any suggestions?  What is the role of women in the church, should they be preaching? Mp3 Share
Episode 60 7/3/10 I have a relative that parties a lot and every time I'm around them they influence me in a bad way, what should I do?   I feel spiritually empty despite doing everything that I should be doing, I'm perusing a job in the ministry but it seems like its going no where for me.  I cheated on my husband before we were married, is that considered adultery? Mp3 Share
Episode 59 6/19/10 Is divorce inevitable for most couples, because it seems like that's the way every marriage is headed these days?  I'm seperated from my husband because I was backsliding and in the world, now that I have come back to Jesus, my husband is still unwilling to forgive me, should I continue to try to keep this marriage together or should I just file for divorce?  How do you honor God's word in honoring and obeying your parents when they have sexually abused me? Mp3 Share
Episode 58 6/12/10 Can I ask my wife not to go next door to the neighbor's home to use their pool, just because it is bothering me, or am I just being a "jerk"?  My teenage daughter does not feel accepted by her stepdad and blames a lot of her problems on him, I am now separated from him, should I just call it quits for my daughter's sake?  Just because something is in the Bible, does it mean my 6 year old needs to be taught it?   Aren't some things in the Bible not age-appropriate? Mp3 Share
Episode 57 6/5/10 My husband was diagnosed with cancer and doesn't have long to live and we don't have much money stored up for after he passes so I'm wondering if I should move to another state once he does, I would love your prayers and advice.  I'm a pastor's wife and my husband likes to help homeless and hitch hikers by bringing them to our home, but I feel like he is putting our family in danger, am I wrong?   If I forgive someone, does that mean I have to stay with them? Mp3 Share
Episode 56 5/29/10 I spoke to a psychic who said they contacted my dead mother and relayed some very specific things to me, do you think that is possible the psychic really made contact?   My husband has a friend who i think has a crush on him,  he has a little "pet" nickname for her and they use it in emails, they are both Christians and claim nothing is going on, so am I just being paranoid?  How do you know when you are in God's will, does God's will mean an "easy path" or should we have to work for it?   Mp3 Share
Episode 55 5/22/10 Our pastor treats the church staff badly and is making people doubt their own talents and abilitiies, what should I do?  Does God punish us for past sins by causing us to lose our baby? Mp3 Share
Episode 54 5/15/10 My husband is moody, stressed & is not interested in sexual relationship with me anymore and is verbally abusive toward me but acts like everything is fine around church people, what should I do?  If the Bible says you will not be tested beyond what you can bear, why do Christians seem to have such bad trials in life and why do so many Christians commit suicide? Mp3 Share
Episode 53 5/8/10 How do you talk to someone who is a new Christian but feels "less" than people that have been in the church longer?  How do I nicely refute the statement "thats not very Christian" when someone isn't working and living off welfare. Mp3 Share
Episode 52 4/30/10 How long should a person in ministry step down after the exposure of a public sin like an affair?  My husband is very cold to me, is there hope for our relationship?  What reasons are there in order to leave a church? Mp3 Share
Episode 51 4/24/10 Is dreaming about committing adultery really just revealing what is in my heart, and what can I do to get these thoughts out of my head?  I have a Christian friend that seems to be having a haunting from a demon/spirit in his home, how is this possible if he is a Christian? Mp3 Share
Episode 50 4/17/10 Why would God allow the sick elderly who are saved to suffer rather than to take them home?  I feel like the Pastor's wife at my church is treating me badly, should I confront the Pastor about it?     Mp3 Share
Episode 49 4/10/10 Would the Lord honor me in the homosexual lifestyle if I were to marry my partner and live a Christian life?   Is it okay for a Christian to speak "little white lies" to make thier ministry seem like it is more successful than it really is? Mp3 Share
Episode 48 4/3/2010 Special Easter Message from Casting Cares Mp3 Share
Episode 47 3/27/2010 My husband's ministry is now tainted with adultery and he is trying to back it up with scripture.  My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me so I broke it off with him and now I'm wondering if I did the right thing?  Are sexual relations okay if you are in a committed relationship that isn't marraige? Mp3 Share
Episode 46 3/20/2010 Every time my husband and I fight he always says he doesn't want to be married to me, and he is in jail, how do I know that I am doing all I can on my side to make sure my marriage works?  I was divorced 5 years ago and it was very traumatic for me, can you share scripture with me for comfort? Mp3 Share
Episode 45 3/13/2010 Are men more wired for affairs, and should this excuse the sin?  Is it okay for a wife to leave her job to stay home with the kids to homeschool when the husband doesn't agree?  My husband and I are divorcing after 45 years together and he is now with someone 14 years younger, I am having a hard time getting through this without being bitter. Mp3 Share
Episode 44 3/6/2010 My daughter is dating a guy who rarely works and uses my daughter for car rides, he won't go to church, I don't want him to pull her away from the Lord how should I deal with this?.  My husband having an affair but I want to stand for my marriage, should I sign divorce papers? Mp3 Share
Episode 43 2/27/2010 Where can I find more scripture against the "once saved always saved" mentality?  Will the sin of smoking keep me from Heaven?  My husband and I are always arguing, what can I do? Mp3 Share
Episode 42 2/13/2010 Valentines Day Special.  Is it really important to give my spouce a Valentines day gift?  Should we bring children into this world that is such a mess?  Should we wait until we can afford it to have children?  How can I talk to a Catholic who actually believes they literally eat flesh and drink blood when they take communion? Mp3 Share
Episode 41 2/6/2010 My husband does not want to go to church or pray with me, yet he is a very "good" man, what should I do?  Does the Bible speak against women fixing theif hair and putting on makeup?    How do you deal with people where everything in their life is a huge drama?  Is it the same to go to a Baptist church as it is to go to  Christian one? Mp3 Share
Episode 40 2/6/2010 Why did God allow my husband to leave me for another woman even though I prayed for a hedge around my marriage?  The Bible says if you just "believe in the name of Jesus" you are saved, but is it really that easy? Mp3 Share
Episode 39 1/30/2010 My husband is in the habit of lying, he says he's a Christian but this situation has me very concerned.  Should children be included in adult worship time at church?  How should I deal with my chronic disease as a husband and a father when I can't even do basic tasks, and how do I teach my kids to have a good work ethic when I can't even work? Mp3 Share
Episode 38 1/23/2010 How can we help the people in need in Haiti?   Why did God allow my husband to leave me for another woman even though I prayed for a hedge around my marriage?  How do you deal with bitterness in your heart when you have been hurt or betrayed? Mp3 Share
Episode 37 1/9/2010 When I die do I go directly to Heaven or is there a period of soul sleep?  How should I deal with a chronic disease? Mp3 Share
Episode 36 1/2/2010 Speaking well about your ex spouce to your children.   I feel called to go into full time ministry, where do I start?  Should children be included in church services with the adults? Mp3 Share